First-Time FAQ

I’ve never done this before. Is that okay?

Of course. I welcome beginners — as long as they come with respect, openness, and a willingness to follow instructions. I will guide you. You don’t need to have experience, only sincerity.

What should I expect during our first session?

Expect intentionality. Expect structure. Expect to feel seen. Our time will begin with conversation — establishing boundaries, desires, and energy. Then we’ll step into ritual. Every session is unique and designed for you, under my direction.

I’m nervous. Is that normal?

Yes. Nerves are a sign that this means something to you. They show vulnerability, which I value deeply. Let them sharpen your presence, not block it. Trust me to lead you through it.

Do I need to know what I’m into?

Not at all. I can sense it. We’ll discuss ideas and possibilities beforehand. I will ask the right questions, and your body and breath will tell me everything I need to know. Come as you are. Curiosity is enough.

What should I bring?

Your tribute, properly prepared. Cleanliness and grooming. A clear mind. An open heart. I’ll handle the rest.

How should I address you?

You may refer to me as Domina unless instructed otherwise. If you forget, I will remind you — once.

To serve me is a privilege. One that begins with understanding how I am to be approached and honored.

1. Respect is the minimum.
   Address me properly. Speak with clarity. Do not waste my time with vague requests or poor presentation.

2. Obedience must be embodied.
   Do not perform submission for me. Live it. Show it in your tone, your words, your posture, and your consistency.

3. Tribute precedes access.
   You do not get time, attention, or instruction without proving your seriousness. My energy is earned, never assumed.

4. No excuses. No chaos.
   I do not tolerate inconsistency, flakiness, or lack of preparation. If you are not ready, do not apply.

5. Vulnerability is not weakness.
   I value emotional honesty and spiritual openness. If you are here to grow, bring your real self — not your persona.

6. Confidentiality is non-negotiable.
   What happens in my presence stays in sacred confidence. Breach that, and you’re exiled.

7. Always be becoming.
   This is a space for transformation. You are expected to evolve under my guidance — mentally, energetically, and emotionally.

Tribute

Tribute is to be placed in an unsealed envelope within the first five minutes of our meeting. It should be visible and ready — no fumbling, no awkward exchanges. If needed, you may excuse yourself briefly to place it with discretion. This small gesture sets the tone. It shows respect. It allows us to begin with ease, intention, and clarity.

Preparation & Hygiene

I take my time preparing for you.
Soft skin. Subtle scent. Every detail chosen deliberately. I expect that same care in return.

There’s a quiet thrill in the scent of freshly showered skin, the touch of clean hands, the hint of mint on your breath. A warm shower. Trimmed nails. Light grooming. These aren’t just niceties — they’re offerings. They tell me you're present, attuned, and worthy of the experience we're about to share.

Come to me clean. Come to me ready.
And we’ll begin exactly as we should — with mutual respect, and magnetic anticipation.

At this time, I am available exclusively through Fly Me To You arrangements and select tour dates.
I do not entertain last-minute requests or local sessions outside of these offerings.

If you're ready to craft something intentional and unforgettable, I invite you to begin planning our rendezvous with care. My time is reserved for those who prepare accordingly.

You may check my schedule to view current locations and upcoming tour dates.
If your city isn’t listed, you may submit a FMTY inquiry with your proposal.

When you fill out my contact form, you’ll be asked a series of screening questions. These are not optional. They are a necessary part of requesting time with me — because first-time lovers must meet my standards of safety, respect, and readiness.

Screening allows me to feel comfortable and in control. It ensures that you are who you say you are and that our time together begins from a place of mutual trust. If you are unwilling or unable to complete this step with honesty and intention, your request will not be considered.

Discretion is sacred to me.
Your information will be viewed only by me, used solely for the purpose of screening, and deleted once the process is complete. I take your privacy seriously — and I expect the same care in return.

To confirm our time together, a 30% deposit is required. For Fly Me To You engagements, I require a 50% deposit in addition to all travel and accommodation expenses. Certain tours may also require a 50% deposit at my discretion.

Deposits are non-negotiable and reflect the value of my time, energy, and limited availability. I do not hold space without them.

All deposits are non-refundable, though rescheduling is permitted with a minimum of 5 days’ notice, and must occur within one month of the original booking. If I need to cancel for any reason, your deposit will be refunded in full.

Deposits may be sent via Cash App or E-gift card of my choosing.
The remaining balance is due in local currency upon arrival.

Respect the structure, and it will hold space for you.

My photos are intentionally blurred to preserve my anonymity and maintain the same level of discretion I extend to those who serve me. I’ve worked with high-profile submissives who trust me not only with their secrets, but with their surrender. That trust is never broken.

Discretion is not negotiable. It is foundational to what I offer.

I do not entertain drama, gossip, or exposure. I am here to dominate, transform, and vanish from view when the scene is complete. If additional discretion is required, I am more than familiar with NDAs and will sign one upon request.

When you engage with me, you are choosing refinement, mystery, and protection. Everything outside of our dynamic ceases to exist.

Yes, I am happy to provide a reference — if we have met within the last six months. I require a $50 tribute for my time and energy. Please request it respectfully in advance, and allow up to 72 hours for a response.

Discretion flows both ways. If I felt disrespected during our time together, I reserve the right to decline your request.