Sensual Sadist & Dominant Darling

I was never meant to follow rules. I was born to write them, bend them, and make you beg for the chance to obey them.

I don’t dominate because it’s fun. I dominate because it’s natural.
My power is soft and absolute. You won’t notice it taking over until it already has. I don’t need to raise my voice. I raise your need. I don’t chase. I pull.

This path didn’t begin in a dungeon. It began in boardrooms, lecture halls, spiritual circles — places where power was practiced but never embodied. I took what I learned from law, from performance, from ritual, and turned it into something holy. Something carnal. Something mine.

When you step into my world, you do not receive a performance. You receive initiation.
I am not for the impatient. I am for the ones who want to feel. Really feel. The ones who ache for their mind to be read, their body undone, and their spirit sharpened under my gaze. Below you’ll find a list of my interests and limits. If you have a craving for a flavor not listed below, feel free to inquire directly.

What follows is a glimpse into the realms I enjoy.
If your desire isn’t named here but feels aligned, you may inquire directly - contact@devondare.com

OFFERINGS

My sessions are not casual play. They are curated rituals, energetically clean, emotionally intelligent, and spiritually aligned. Each encounter is sculpted with intention — no two are the same, because no two of you are. What I offer is depth. If you’re here for something quick and performative, I’m not your Domina.

The Initiation

For those new to kink, or to me. A guided introduction into submission, ritual control, and the energetic dynamics of Dominance. I’ll show you how to serve, how to feel, how to soften into obedience without fear or performance. This is how your training begins.
Recommended: 2–3 hours

Ritual Restraint

Rope is an extension of my will — and you are an extension of my rope. I specialize in energetic bondage, shibari, and stillness training. Whether you’re bound on the floor or suspended in silence, you’ll feel everything. And that’s exactly the point.
Recommended: 3+ hours

Impact and Emotion

Pain is not punishment. It is a language. I speak it fluently. My scenes weave rhythm, pressure, and energetic play — transforming impact into insight. In my hands, impact play is not brutality. It is alchemy. I don’t simply strike, I sculpt. My tools are chosen with intention, my rhythm measured, my silence deliberate. Every sound, every mark, every pause is designed to bring you somewhere you’ve never gone before.

Expect a scene that is both physical and psychological. You will be watched. You will be read. You will be led through waves of sensation that peel away your performative self and leave only the raw, the real, and the ready.

This is not about pain tolerance. This is about trust.
Trust in me to take you to the edge. Trust in yourself to surrender.
Recommended: 90 minutes–2 hours

Devotion Over Dinner

A slow burn. A shared meal. A space to connect, tease, instruct. I enjoy dining rituals before or after sessions, where power simmers quietly under the surface. Every glance, every word, every bite is charged.
Recommended: 4–5 hours

Girlfriend Dom Experience


I’m not just here to keep you company—I’m here to take control. You’ll get warmth, affection, intimacy... but under myterms. I’ll hold your hand, guide your mind, and train your attention. You’ll feel safe, desired, and subtly owned. This is slow-burn power, and you’ll thank me for the structure.

4hr minimum.

INTERESTS

These are the experiences I move through with intention. Every act, every tool, every word is an extension of my will. These aren’t kinks. They’re rituals. They’re frequencies I open you into. If your desire isn’t named here but feels aligned, you may inquire directly - contact@devondare.com.

Sensation & Body Worship

  • Tease and denial

  • Sensory play (ice, wax, fabrics, feather-light touch, sting, spikes)

  • Face sitting, body worship, foot and heel worship

  • Trampling, breath control, scent play

  • Tickling, edging, layered pleasure and denial

Impact & Control

  • Spanking, flogging, caning, paddling, open-hand punishment

  • Nipple torment, CBT, pressure play

  • Objectification and physical restriction

  • Hands-on correction paired with stillness and silence

Bondage & Restraint

  • Rope bondage (floor, furniture, suspension-ready)

  • Mummification, sensory deprivation

  • Predicament bondage, kneeling positions, display training

  • Ritualized stillness and energetic domination through containment

Mind Play & Transformation

  • Power exchange, FLR (Female-led relationships)

  • Sissification and gender exploration

  • Humiliation (soft to intense), shame-to-devotion reprogramming

  • Emotional domination, mirror work, vulnerability extraction

  • Orgasm Control

  • Erotic Hypnosis & suggestion work.

Ritual & Roleplay Realms

  • Priestess and acolyte

  • Witch and sacrifice

  • High femme CEO and obedient intern

  • Teacher and student

  • Stepmom/Stepchild

  • Dream logic scenes: surrealism, fantasy, erotic mythology

Soft & Hard Limits

My sessions are built on trust and precision. Consent is not a checkbox — it’s a living agreement. These are my clear boundaries. Respect them, and you will be guided properly. Disregard them, and you will be dismissed.

Absolutely Not

  • Scat or Roman Showers

  • Play while intoxicated

  • Unsafe blood or medical scenes

  • Any non-consensual language or actions outside negotiated CNC

  • Ignorance of boundaries, consent, or protocol

Conditional or Case-by-Case

  • Needle play

  • Cuckolding

  • Fisting

  • Taboo or religious roleplay

  • Public play (must be discreet and safe)

If you are unsure, ask with reverence.

Consent & Protocol

All of my sessions operate under the framework of Risk-Aware Consensual Kink (RACK). We will discuss boundaries, triggers, safewords, and aftercare before anything begins. This isn’t optional. This is sacred.

I am strict about energy. If your energy is chaotic, entitled, or performative — we won’t move forward.
My presence is a privilege. If you wish to serve, you will behave accordingly.

Fly Me To You

You may summon me — but only if you understand what that means.

Fly Me To You engagements are not casual bookings. They are indulgent, immersive, and sacred. I do not travel lightly. I arrive with presence, precision, and power. This is not a vacation. This is your initiation.

Whether it’s a luxury suite in your city, a secluded villa, or a decadent destination of your choosing, I will craft an experience that leaves you marked — mentally, energetically, and physically. FMTY sessions are ideal for those who crave extended scenes, layered ritual, and the kind of closeness that turns service into obsession.

If you wish to host me, you must:

  • Submit your application at least 7 days in advance

  • Cover first-class travel, luxury accommodation, and tribute

  • Send a non-refundable booking fee to confirm

  • Demonstrate discretion, readiness, and respect

FMTY sessions begin at 6 hours minimum
Overnights and multi-day immersions available upon request

Your city. My rules.
If you want to be owned in your own space, you’ll need to make it worthy of me.